Let’s be honest, most couples don’t spend their weekends posing for professional photos. If the thought of standing in front of a camera makes you feel a bit awkward, you’re not alone! The good news? You don’t need to be a model to look natural in your wedding photos. I’m going to help you do it naturally.
As a wedding photographer, I know exactly how to capture those beautiful, candid moments that feel like you. With a few simple techniques, you’ll feel confident, look amazing, and, most importantly, enjoy every second of your big day without worrying about the camera.
So, grab a cuppa and let’s dive into my 7 top tips for how to look natural in your wedding photos!
1. Trust Your Photographer (We’ve Got You!)
First things first, choose a photographer who makes you feel at ease. Your wedding photographer isn’t just there to snap pictures; they’re there to guide you, make you laugh, and help you forget the camera is even there.
A great photographer will chat with you beforehand, get to know your vibe, and offer gentle direction on the day without making you feel posed or forced. If you are comfortable and relaxed, you will look natural in your wedding photos, trust me.
Top Tip: Have an engagement shoot! It’s a brilliant way to get used to being in front of the camera before the big day and to build a great rapport with your photographer.
2. Keep Moving—The Best Shots Happen Between the Poses
Ever seen wedding photos where couples look effortlessly in love, laughing and lost in the moment? Here’s the secret: they weren’t standing still!
Movement naturally puts you at ease, so you look natural in your wedding photos, rather than stiffly posed. Why not try:
- Walking hand in hand
- Whispering something funny in your partner’s ear
- Twirling your dress (or spinning your partner!)
- Holding a toast and clinking glasses
The magic happens in those in-between moments when you’re interacting naturally.
3. Breathe and Relax Your Shoulders
Tension loves to creep into wedding photos, especially in your shoulders and hands. The easiest fix? Take a deep breath, exhale, and shake it out.
On the day, if you feel yourself tensing up, your photographer will remind you to:
✅ Drop your shoulders
✅ Loosen your hands (no clenched fists!)
✅ Shift your weight between your feet
You’ll instantly feel more comfortable and look natural in your wedding photos, reflecting a relaxed energy.
4. Use Your Eyes to Tell the Story
A genuine smile isn’t just about your mouth; it’s in your eyes. Think about a moment that makes you happy, like how your partner looks when they’re laughing, or that first sip of champagne after the ceremony.
This little mindset shift helps your eyes sparkle with real emotion, helping you look more natural in your wedding photos, more authentic.
Bonus Tip: If in doubt, look at your partner rather than the camera; it instantly makes the moment feel more real.
5. Forget About ‘Perfect’ and Just Have Fun
The best wedding photos aren’t about looking flawless; they’re about capturing you. The belly laughs, the teary-eyed smiles, the little moments that make your day unforgettable.
The more fun you have, the more your wedding photography will reflect the love and joy of the day. So dance like nobody’s watching, embrace the wind in your hair, and don’t stress about perfection, because real, natural moments are always the most beautiful.
6. Dress for Comfort & Confidence
I know the wedding attire is very important, but bear these things in mind when you are choosing it. Feeling good in what you’re wearing makes all the difference. Choosing a wedding outfit that allows you to move comfortably, sit down easily, and dance without worrying about wardrobe malfunctions is essential if you want to look natural in your wedding photos.
For grooms, a well-fitted suit (not too tight!) will help you feel relaxed, while brides should consider fabrics that move beautifully and feel good all day long.
Pro Tip: Avoid shoes that make you feel awkward; if you can’t walk naturally in them, it will show in your photos!
7. Embrace the Unexpected!
Rain? Wind? A bit of dress fluff? These are the moments that make your wedding uniquely yours. Some of the most stunning natural and relaxed wedding photography comes from unexpected moments, running through the rain, a veil caught in the breeze, or a hilarious speech reaction.
Lean into the chaos, enjoy every second, and trust your photographer to turn even the little mishaps into pure magic. I promise you will look natural in your wedding photos, and they will be stunning.
Look Natural in Your Wedding Photos
I hope I have shown you that if you want to look natural in your wedding photos, the best thing you can do is just relax and have fun. Your wedding day isn’t about perfection; it’s about being you, celebrating your love together. The right photographer will help you feel at ease, capture those in-between moments, and make sure your love story shines through every image.
So, take a deep breath, enjoy your day, and let the camera do its thing. Your wedding photos will be beautiful because they’ll be real.
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Would you like to chat about how you can look natural in your wedding photos, making them effortlessly stunning? Click here to book a call—I’d love to hear all about your plans!
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